To Marry for security or Real Love?

Boy oh Boy. I have pondered this thought for many years. I have been engaged twice and I often think was I marrying for security or real love? Maybe neither since I am still a bonafide single. But most women I assure you marry for security.

Women want to know that they will be taken care of. I guess then if you really love someone will that equal a happier life in the long run and that too will provide a certain level of security as well, right? Not according to the high percentage of women who are cheating, and mind you, with no guilt.

Well, there are other women who are married and secure and still getting their needs met by an old lover, who is broke, or that thug love who we just can't let go. Or that boy who always moves you in the right places, but doesn't fit that family M.O. I mean what is really important?

I am not really sure, but I am glad that I am waiting to really find out what really is the most important thing for me in making that committment that can only assure changes. Cheating is really not a good look for either party.