Question of The Day!

            Question of the Day:    Should I cheat?

I choose this question because people cheat all the time and be mad at the consequences. If you are in a committed relationship, you don't cheat and if you are single then you are open to exploring whomever you like.  It sounds simple but in today's relationship climate, it always gets a little complicated.  You want them, but you cheat, but you don't want them to have anyone else, so you keep cheating.  She keeps forgiving you because she doesn't want to be alone and she is also embarrassed because she knows you are cheating.  You would think that a responsible adult would be able to articulate what they want without having to deceive or lie, but they do not.  If you feel you want something else whether temporarily or long-term, you should probably think twice or three times because in the end the question you will ask yourself is, was it worth it?   

I often tell people to communicate and be open and honest about how they feel.  It may hurt, but it relieves a lot of unnecessary pressure to perform as if you want to be with someone when you really do not.  Eventually, you will get found out.  Then what?  You may be forgiven and you may stay together, but does that really address the real issues in your relationship? How many times should you forgive a person for cheating, if their behavior is not changing?  Cheating within a relationship changes the relationship forever and a woman never forgets anything that hurts and neither does a man.

Should you cheat?  Absolutely not.   I would not recommend cheating to anyone.  I take loyalty and commitment very seriously.  There is no middle ground with me, either we are this or we are that. There is no we are committed on Tuesdays, Thursdays, and Fridays and we are single on the weekends, Nooo.  I am slow to commit, slow to get into relationships, but quick to dismiss that ass for being a fraud.  Instead of cheating, playing games, and creating more misery,  I would highly recommend finding out who you are and what you really want.  It is natural to desire and be attracted to someone other than the person you are with, but acting on those impulses is another thing altogether. 

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