Question of The Day!

Can you fake love someone for a long time or will you get caught?

Yes, and people do it all the time for selfish reasons.  They are either in the relationship for money, a place to stay, clout, or some other superficial reason that they may find beneficial.  It's all about what they are gaining by pretending they love you.

These people have some kind of disassociative personality disorder because even though they know what they are doing is wrong, they believe in their own facade, which creates a level of comfort so they also believe they'll never get caught. 

Do these people ever get caught?  Yes, they do.  I imagine being fake becomes exhausting and when that mask fall off and you can see their true face, it will require for them to do more work.  If they have been deceiving you for a long time, they are less likely to want to put in more work to continue the facade and that's when things will get real interesting.  If you're lucky they will just up and disappear.

If they have invested too much in the fakeness they may find it hard to let go of their idea of what's real. They will start to either try to make you look bad among people who adore you, create imaginary problems, so you'll need them to solve them and do all they can to make you seem unstable all because they know, their gig is up.  

Although you may feel like a fool for ignoring the signs and for not leaving or acting upon your intuition years ago, the opportunity will present itself and this time it cannot be ignored. This becomes a lesson for the both of you.  You will gain self-worth and learn to trust your intuition and they will hopefully see themselves for the hurt person they are and get some help.  Or they will move on to other people who are like them and remain in their toxic cycle unable to come to terms with their own self-destructive behavior.  

Lavidus