The first thing is do their actions match their words? Is what they used to do, still what they do? At the beginning of the relationship, there will be certain things established, one of those things will be the foundation. Others will be, how you communicate, what is expected, and if you are on the same page, those are the things that will be determined. Beware of people who come in strong and fast trying to find out all they can about you, so they can cater to those particular needs without really knowing who you really are.
Another indication that the love may be waning is If you notice that things that used to be easy are all of a sudden difficult. Having a simple conversation is now a problem. You can't really agree on anything without an argument or they just don't care altogether and not be as involved as they used to. Similar to when you feel love, you can also feel when love disconnects, it's just that too many people ignore those feelings and never address them until it all blows up.
Do you feel as if you are a priority or just someone who is being tolerated? A person who is a priority is catered to and taken care of. They actually can feel the love. You are taking care of each other and it's mutually beneficial. You can feel the love through their actions and there's no question that this person loves you. If you are being tolerated, it is because this person knows you, and it is easier to keep the peace or to keep you around to avoid the repercussions of actually letting you go. Either way, there is no way that you cannot avoid the fact that the love in your relationship has lessened and their actions are a true indication of the current state.
Have a great weekend, It's all yours!💝💝💝
Lavidus
"I will never change my generous heart, but I will change who I am generous to." LLW
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