SoulMates?

 

Greetings beautiful people.  Are you alright?

Soulmates, Karmic's, and Twin flames, I am going to share my idea of these energies.  I call them energies because based on your energy and the vibe that you are sending out determines the connection you call in.  You call in these lessons you need to learn.  You call in the people who will give you those lessons.  And when you are ready, you also call in that ultimate love, which we will refer to as your twin flame.  We all get what we deserve.  There is no way around it.  So when we decide to get into relationships whether it works out or not, it is always what we deserve.

People float in and out of our lives to serve one purpose and that is to teach us about ourselves.  Relationships are supposed to elevate you, encourage you, and help you to ascend to your higher self.  It is a beautiful process when you can grow and learn with the person you love.  But, what if that relationship that you thought was forever, ends?  Is your life over or is it just an opportunity to change your lifestyle to accommodate the you that you are becoming?  When we change and our relationship doesn't work out, or we start to see people for who they really are.  It is always associated with how we feel about ourselves.  The dynamics of a relationship can change and a person who you thought was a soulmate, is now a karmic lesson.

A Soulmate can be anyone.  A best friend, a pet, a cousin, or a lover.  There is an undeniable connection.  This person is someone who you can easily talk to, be friends with or establish a long-term relationship with. There is a connection of like souls.   No time or space can interfere with these connections because you can always pick up where you left off.  Soulmate relationships can be long or short-term.  You can outgrow soul mate relationships because they are not all meant to last.  I know I have had a few soulmates.  People whom I connect with on several different levels.  People outside of this relationship or relationships may not understand the connection, but there is something there that you can not explain and it is wonderful.

Karmic relationships are very different.  They usually involve people who have had a past life connection, who has karma to complete in this lifetime.  A relationship with a karmic whether male or female is hot and heavy.  They come in fast and it often ends fast as well.  But for those karmic relationships that last, those relationships are usually filled with drama, jealousy, and great sex.  I add the great sex in there because it is a very powerful component in these relationships.  It was the main component that kept me in the cycle of my karmic relationship.  We would break up and get back together to the point where he started to take me for granted.   The uncertainty I was feeling allowed me to disconnect and break the cycle. And once I am done, I am done.  It may take me a while to get there,  but once I get there, there is nothing you can do.   I was the one to initiate the break in the cycle, my lesson was self-worth and his was learning to love and live in his truth. His next woman had him in the same misery he tried to have me in.  And the cycle will continue until people realize their part in their own unhappiness.

 Karmic relationships are heavy in the material world; money and sex, is basically how deep it goes.  Anything deeper will expose their weakness and have them face themselves and some of them do not like their face.  Perception is all that matters because the reality of some of these relationships is pure doom.  They usually both have low-self esteem, damaging emotions with games and lack of trust makes their bond even stronger.  They compete with each other, and because this connection feels so familiar, it's hard to break.  You learn some hard lessons in karmic relationships.  Some people are married to their karmic.  If you stay around too long and do not learn those lessons and do not evolve, you will repeat the cycle with another karmic who is also on that same journey and who also needs to learn those same lessons. 

Twin Flame.  People are always asking about the "twin flame journey".  What is it? When will I know?  A lot of you had your twin flame right in your hands and you let him or her go for a karmic lesson. That is what happens when you are not ready.  And when you are not ready, the one that you thought you didn't need or care about, gets away and you're stuck with that lesson.  You have to be an evolved human to invite that kind of love into your life.  The energy of a twin flame relationship, if you want to call it that, is the relationship that adds to your fulfillment.  It is one soul that has split into two and the journey to finding that other half begins at birth.  It's the relationship for being open enough to do the work on yourself.  You have been honest enough to change what is necessary to receive what you truly deserve.   It is the relationship you enter when you know yourself, or if you are with someone who is willing to assist in your evolution.  It's not perfection, but understanding that gets you through the day.  You are vibing high and you are only inviting the peace and love that you exude to share your journey.  There is understanding in your differences, and an acceptance of each other because you know each other.  This can happen at any point in your life, whenever it does happen, you both know you have come together for a purpose.  

There are several other kinds of relationships and connections we make in this lifetime.  Soulmates, karmic, or twin flames all play a part in your evolution as humans.  Do not limit yourself from exploring and never take your relationships for granted.    The relationship we choose is always a reflection of who we think we are.  Choose wisely, because it can all be a test to see if you are ready for what's next.  We are all vibrating beings, constantly sending out signals.  We are all here to share our experiences and not be judged by them. How we relate to each other, tells us so much about ourselves.  How you treat people determines the lessons you need to learn.  In this astonishing gift of life, share it with enthusiasm with those you love and with those who are worth the journey.

Peace & Love

Lavidus

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