I have been celebrating my birthday, being in a state of gratitude and I wanted to thank all of you for your birthday wishes.
Today, I will give you a few jewels that I've learned and used. When you awaken to your reality, everyone around you becomes crystal clear. You see the past very clearly and your ability to create the future. You see how people have mistreated you, how they have misjudged you and how they have hoped that you never find out who you really are. Those same people will keep tabs on your actions because they want to know how you do what you do. And they also want to figure out a way that they can be included.
I highly recommend you leave the past in the past because everyone is not worthy of going with you to your next stage of your journey, and if you think about it, that was the whole reason for the awakening in the first place. It was to not only awaken you to the people around you but awaken you to your true self. People have a tendency to put on faces that look like everyone else. When you pretend for so long, you lose your real face and your whole existence becomes a lie. For those of you who are expereincing changes you may not undestand and you want to better navigate through this filtered maze, here are some tips that will keep you on top of your game.
1. LET PEOPLE THINK SMALL FOR YOU
I am often misjudged and it used to bother me to be misunderstood, but now I know that a person can only understand me as well as they understand themselves. You can not expect a person who has never been a business owner to understand the dedication and the sacrifice. You can not expect a person who has never been real with themselves to be real with you. So they can not fathom how big your dreams are or determine how far you will go. They can only judge you on how far they can go, which is why you may sometimes hear people say, "You'll never do that." "I didn't even do that." "You can't do that". They are not talking about you, they are talking about themselves.
Side Note: This reminds me of a friend I used to have. I did not realize how throughout our whole friendship she was competing with me, but a hater will always eventually reveal themselves, if you listen. Anyway, this friend had been my friend for atleast 10 years at this point, I had already had my first child and she was on her way to having her second. This friend had done some shady shit in the past, like get pregnant by her neighbor and had her boyfriend pay for the abortion, but hey, I never judged her. Anyway, she had just found out she was pregnant with her second child and she looked at me and said, "Another baby, you didn't even do that." I was a bit thrown at first, but then I realized she was competing and comparing and when you do that against a woman like me, you could cause yourself to go into full blown depression. Why would you do that? When you mind your own business, you will have people competing against you, and jealous of you and you will have no idea. Their whole life will be revolved around doing better than you, while you are just doing you. Let people think small for you, because they have no idea what you can accomplish.
2. KEEP IT TO YOURSELF
How many times have you seen people get a little bit of something and it's all over the internet. They go to the internet to announce every aspect of their life, only to find out later that people really don't give a shit about your life. Half of them hate the fact that you're happy. So when you're elevating, you have to keep certain things to yourself. Keep quiet. Let people talk, assume and make judgements. Some will say you must be mad about something, (Don't you just love it when they try to make it about them?) Others may think you acting different or you've changed. Yes, you have changed and guess what, you are still looking the same, if not worse. We are not on the same frequency, and this relationship is above me now. Sometimes God keeps you hidden from the people who are not supposed to see you. So stop trying to be seen around people who are blind to your greatness. Keep that good news to yourself, and just celebrate with people who have your best interest.
3. PRETEND YOU DON'T KNOW
Never confront people with what you know. Let people assume that you do not know how they talk behind your back, how they want what you got, and how they slander your name. Pretend you don't see the tactics that they have been put in place behind your back, so when they come back around smiling like a chess cat, the silent treatment will be best served cold. Pretend you don't know how people you've been there for, didn't stand up for you, but instead they choose to believe lies. You do not need to respond to anyone. You do not need to justify any of your actions. They know why they are getting the silent treatment, because if they didn't know, they would be on the phone trying to find out why and what's going on. Learn to play dumb around dumb people, and pretend you don't know.
Peace & Love
Lavidus
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