Transforming also means leaving those old habits, thoughts, and people in the rear view. Letting go of the things that no longer serve your highest good or the person that you are becoming, all must be left behind. You have to not only forgive people and let them go you have to replace them with people who know your worth and value your time. And let me be the first to say that it is not always an easy transition.
When you begin to see friendships change or dissipate, let them. When you realize that you are surrounded by people who are only close because they want to be the first to see you fail, dismiss them without a second thought. When people show you time and time again who they are, believe them. Even the big bad wolf eventually reveals itself to the unsuspecting lamb. Everything hidden will be revealed. You can acknowledge someone's inability to see your worth, but you do not have to have them in your space unless you want too.
Silent claps filled with the air of jealousy and disappointment in their own lives; that, my loves, have nothing to do with you. Be willing to disappear and become an empty space in the life of someone who does not support your dreams or have anything nice or sweet to say. Let them leave your space and preserve your energy for the ones that cheer and cheer loudly. Find your tribe, and let them find theirs. You are ascending to heights that they can never dream of and you can not take them with you and why would you want to?
You may have to be alone in observation mode before you take your true flight. In order to make better decisions, in order to love better, in order to receive the abundance that you deserve, you have to find out who you are and what you want. Go inside and get to know yourself. Find out what you are made of. Do not let anyone else determine who you are. Some may see your light and watch you shine. Once they see your potential, their fear sets in. Release with compassion. A good life to them may only consist of a free happy meal and a $2.50 drink, let them revel in it. Everyone does not have the ability to imagine more for themselves, they're limited in thought and actions. Allow them to live the life they deserve.
You may experience drawbacks and want the comfort of what you think you know. Deny it, going back to comfort will only delay your growing process. Growing can be painful, but the other side of that pain is pure love. It's a better version of yourself, its a whole new world right inside of you. Be fearless, Be Love and Never Settle for crumbs when you can have the whole damn meal!!
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