Ohhhh The Holidays!
This is always the time of year when you get to see or feel how much people in your life think you are worth. This can come in many forms and some surprises. Although "Christmas" is one of the most commercialized holidays built on the fantasy of "Santa Clause" that many people tend to fall under the trance of, it is still considered a real thing and a justifiable ritual that many of us participate in each year.
Christmas time is also when crime is high and self-esteem, self-loathing and insecurities are at an all-time low. So you gotta ask yourself, why participate? Why do we rush out to spend money on those we love or buy things for people we really don't care about. I don't know, maybe generational programming and no desire to find out the truth? I do know whether you get something you want or not, it will all make you check your self-worth just a little bit harder. He gets you that diamond ring, but it's really a cubic zirconia, would you love him any less? You wanted a motorcycle but she got you that scooter, it will still get you there, right? Those are just examples of how our self-worth should not be tied to things.
Let's consider the other side of the holidays, the side that does not include gifts, just love. The side that invites you to get together with family to talk and heal wounds. It's time to tell that man or woman how you really feel, whether its a break-up, reuniting or just deciding to keep it lit, give in to the truth of whatever it is you are feeling. Bask in that feeling you get when you know that someone loves and supports you. It's all love and that's all that matters. Remember to love, forgive and move on for the holidays. Release that stuck energy and open up to the divine. Embrace the dark times and appreciate the light. You can never put a price on a person or the weight of their love, but if you want to get me those black stiletto thigh-high boots, I will definitely wear them. Size 8.
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