American Boy

My American boy's, they seem to be getting more and more lame. I just do not understand it. And they seem to wonder why are all these bonafide Africa men are taking their women Well, some of them are well worth the time, love their mother's and know what it means to have a true Queen in their presence.

I took the time to see some of my old "friends" and they are just as fucked up as they were when I left for Atlanta. My American Boys, I am not sure where the disconnect took place, but it is there and is getting wider and wider. Please let me say I am not talking about all of you, just the men, who are have failed to recognize the true meaning of being a strong, loving man. The men who offer me sex, as if I do not get that offer on a daily basis. That man who thinks he has the best stuff, but in my book rates about a 5 on a good night. To that dude who likes to go to hot tubs, but does not realize it makes his small equipment look smaller. Go swimming next time or to the movies. I can go on and on, but the only advice from me is, get therapy, I heard it helps.

I recently met a dude through my brother, (I should have known then that he was lacking a few things), but anyway, I am always open to meet new people. One night I called him in a drunken stumper, (ya' know the drunk dialing thing) and said we should hook up and later apologized because I was under the influence of Patron. He said I was lame for getting at him and then apologizing. Well, first of all, I get at no one. Second, how can you take a drunk woman at face value,I made at least three of those phone calls that night. I think he went away thinking that I wanted to like really hook up. This is the same guy that said he prefers Latina women, so I already know I don't fit the bill. He gets mad respect for knowing what he likes. However, I like tall, confident men and he was all of 5 feet nine, or maybe even eight. Personally, I think he's too insecure for a real woman, no matter what race, he doesn't seem like the type that likes to be called on his bullshit and a real woman would do that. I heard he was paid, if so, then he too needs to invest in some real good therapy.

This brings me to my date tonite with my African King. For some reason, I seem to attract the African man, and from my past experience with a African man, my, my, my he treated me very well, and made me feel like a woman everyday. His intelligence was incomparable , I love to be taught something. He inspired me and believed in me. No matter how crazy my idea was. He is today my true friend. The only thing that broke us up was distance, I cannot do long distance relationships, well, I probably could, I just don't like to. Just like some American men,there are some African men who are off the rickter, I just have never met them or had that experience. And, yes they usually have great bodies and nice equipment that seems to go on like an EverReady battery. Big ups, Kimora!!!

I am completely open to American Boys, in fact they are my favorite, but some of them need to tighten up that game and social skills. A woman likes to be talked to. She likes to be stimulated in the mind, and the body. Please try that.

As I slip into this hot tub and soak tonite, before we hang, I look forward to what the night brings.