Happy New Year!

            

 

Happy New Year! Can You Believe It? I am extremely excited!!

Let's hold on to the things that bring us the most joy and let go of the things that do not.

Let's close the doors that no longer fulfill our hearts and stir our soul

And let us open the door to all the things that we deserve and desire.

Let's move forward with fierceness and determination.  Stampede our hearts with what moves us to make the necessary changes for our highest good.

Let go of the hurt that someone else may have caused.  Remember, they are hurting, and know no other way but to bash and throw tantrums, let them.

The effect of their actions will remind them, how foolish it was to stunt their own growth.

Let us all be rewarded for standing our ground and taking the high road.

Pave it with intent.

Happy New Year Everyone!  Thank you for all your love and support! 💓💓💋💋💚💜💙💘💘

2022.....💥💨💨💨.!!!!!

Peace & Love😍

Lavidus

Stay Up!

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Greetings, Beautiful people, how are you on this beautiful Wednesday?

It is raining outside. It is very cold and it's so beautiful. I love getting up in the morning. It has been very very cold.  The weather is changing. Coffee, this morning is on deck.  I am not drinking tea today.  I have actually been doing tea for the last few days. Tea, honey, garlic, or cloves, and all that good stuff. But, this morning I am having coffee because I need a little pick me up.  

I slept very well last night. Very deep.  Have you ever had one of those deep sleeps that you wake up and you stretch and... I don't want to get out of bed?  So I didn't. That's where I am recording, right now, in my bed. So thank you...for joining me.

Today, I want to encourage you guys to Stay Up. Whatever keeps you up, gravitate towards that. Now I know that we are in a transition of times and for some, it may be very difficult. But it's ok.  The birthing process is very difficult. A man can only imagine for those of you mothers who have birth children into this world, you know the process can be painful. But the end result is something beautiful.  A creation that is part of you.  So it's an amazing thing that's happening right now to the collective, so hold on.

These are things that have worked for me to get me through some of my hardest days. It hasn't always been rose petals and sunshine. I've had difficult days. But I've also have learned to change my mind about what I believe difficult is.  Because it's all about perception. It's all about your perception, and that is one of the main things that help create your reality.  Throughout all of this, these are things that have helped me.  These are things that I do and I hope that they help you too.  If there are things that you already have in place already, share them with somebody, that's all I am doing. 

 I am not looking to change your mind about what you believe, and I hope that you are not looking to change mine. What we all should be trying to accomplish and what I am trying to accomplish is, I want to understand our differences, and in that understanding find common ground. Ok, that was a little bit off the subject. But yeah, this is what I am talking about.  We all go through things, but we have to be open to each other to realize how much we have in common.  Our differences are what we have in common. So don't take any of this shit too seriously.  Enjoy the ride.  Enjoy the journey. Enjoy each moment of your life. Because once you find out what it really is, once you find out how you can navigate through his existence flawlessly, it all becomes quite simple.  This neverending maze of life,  don't try to figure it all out. Trust yourself.  Trust in the process, because we can't always have a plan.  You can't always be prepared for life, because it's always happening. 

So on those hard days, give yourself a break. Take time out and appreciate the moment that you're in.  Know that something needed to change, whether you are aware of it or not. Maybe there was a spark that needed to happen. Appreciate those lessons.  They help us grow. Ya, know? But anyway. Here are three of the main ways, I Stay Up!

Peace & Love

Lavidus

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Sheep People

 I had the pleasure of watching The Matrix and I enjoyed myself.   The movie was explosive and had all the expected ingredients for a well-made movie that makes you question your reality.

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Peace & Love 

Lavidus

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Life is But A Dream

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Row. Row, Row, your boat gently down the stream

Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily, life is but a dream

How many of us remember that nursery rhyme?

If life is indeed a dream, what happens when you're awake?  If life is a dream, what are you dreaming about?  Who are you dreaming about?   If you could dream up the life you want, what would it look like?

Dreams are illusions and the illusions are real.  You are everything that you dreamed of right now.  If you want to be something else, just change your dream.  Anything is possible because you are limitless. 

I finally completed all of my shopping and I will be relaxing for the next couple of days. Let's not lose sight of what this season is all about. It's really not about the gifts.  Some of you will receive gifts from people that didn't even want to give you a gift, but they are so caught up in what this season is supposed to mean that, they are going to go against their own judgments.  Don't be that person.  If someone does not deserve a gift from you, don't feel guilty for not giving them one.  People need to be treated like they deserve.  The holidays conjure up all kinds of emotions and sometimes we get lost in them.  Find out what this season really means, then find out what it means to you because that's all that really matters.

I am grateful for today. I am grateful for my life.  There have been harsh circumstances that have occurred in my life that should have broken me. But, I am still here.  If you are reading this, or if you are listening and you have been through a storm or two, congratulate yourself for making it this far.  Thank yourself for not giving up.  Love on yourself, and give yourself a break and acknowledge the fact that you're still here. Unbreakable.  Their plan for you didn't work.  Their opinion of you doesn't matter.  You are still here celebrating life gearing up for the next chapter. So celebrate this new season, relax and bring it on in, because the best is yet to come.

Peace & Love

Lavidus

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We.

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Greetings beautiful people, how are you on this lovely Saturday morning?

I just wanted to take this opportunity to thank all of you who listen to my podcast, who read my books, who read my blog, Thank you.

I really appreciate your support and you taking the time to share my experience.

As I reflect back on the year I really had a lot of decisions to make. One of them was to whether or not to continue my podcast.

I made the decision to continue my podcast because I truly do love it so much.

I enjoy sharing this with you, this way and using this medium to share my experience and give my advice in regards to relationships.

So, thank you very much for sharing this experience with me.  Thank you.

I also want to use this time to encourage you to keep going.

Do not let the end of the year, be the end of anything.  Because where ever there is an ending there is a new beginning.  Each day is a new beginning.  You do not have to wait until January first. You can start right now.

Keep going.

Do not be distracted. Stay focused.

We are all in this together. Whether recognize it or not, and maybe our experiences are different, but we are all in this together.

I hope that you have a great day and I hope that the end of the year brings you all that you deserve, all that you desire, and all that you aspire to have and to gain. And in that same wish, I hope that you are giving in that way.

I hope that you exist in a world where everything is reciprocal. Whatever you give out you get back.  I hope you make the necessary changes to move you forward, to live a good, happy, healthy life.

Peace & Love

Lavidus

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"They"

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When they start talking about what you should be doing when they're not doing shit themselves.

When they have never contributed to your future, but yet feel it necessary to tell you, "It's about time" you got that promotion.  It's about time you left that relationship. It's about time you got married.  It's about time you wrote that book.  It's about time you quit that job.  It's about time you got your shit together.  Yeah? You're monitoring my time, when will it be yours exactly?

When they compare you to people you've never even heard of and expect a response. 

When they watch your every move, except the move that's going to get them left behind.

When they start talking about the who, what, when, and where, it's really none of their business because they were not there.

When they got more problems than a genius with one idea, but want to judge you on your minuscule 

 issues.

When they stand in front of the mirror and still can't see themselves, but be all up in your vision as if they were born to be.

 

When they try to put you in the same little box that they are in and although you clearly do not fit, they will try at any cost until they lose their grip.

When they love who you are and hate that they can't control it.

When they don't have their own thoughts, Cluster B mind, they stole it.

When they are them and you become us, don't get caught on that when 'they' were bus.

Lavidus

What do You Desire?

 

DESIRE: A strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen. 

What do you truly desire?

If you could have all of your desires fulfilled, what would be next?

Do you live out all of your desires every single day?  Or save them for special occasions?

Are your desires hidden in a closet or put out on display for all to see.

That is your life because it really doesn't matter to me. 

But, just for the sake of conversation, What do you desire?

Do you enjoy your guilty pleasures?  Do they make you feel high?  Do you give in to all of your desires, until they make you fly?

Do you starve yourself of what you think you might need the most, blame others for not being able to live your life, and boast?

What do you desire?

To be free, unlimited, and to give in to all that makes you  feel good

To walk in the darkness and the light

To die and live again is pure pleasure when understood

To wake up to satisfaction and go to bed with Grace

Desire is what I see when you gently touch my face

What do you desire?

To walk in pure nakedness and still be unseen

To eat the fruit of life and never feel hunger again

Desire: A strong feeling of wanting to have something or wishing for something to happen.

What do you want? 

What do you desire?

Lavidus

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Happy Saturday!

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I really do not have any  particular thing to say,  or any specific topic to talk about this morning.  I am in a great mood.  I am drinking my ginger tea, with honey and a few cloves.  I feel good. It's about 4:30 a.m, and I wanted to share some of my mood with you.  

It is getting very cold, the weather is changing to accommodate the new season.  It will be raining and snowing heavily where I am beginning, I think on Sunday.  I am pretty excited.  I will be cooking comfort food, staying inside while all this change in the atmosphere takes place.  I will also be writing and recording.  I will definitely be in my space.

What will you be doing this weekend?  Is it cold where you are? Is the weather changing? This is great weather for making love, cuddling. This is considered cuffing season, right?  People actually do get into relationships for the season, and for the season only.  I am sure most of us are past that stage in our lives, but for some people, it's a lifestyle.  Don't get caught out there, falling in love for the season, and be single again when Valentine's Day roll around.  

I usually go to Walmart between 6 a.m and 7.  I prefer to shop early,  there is less contact with people, no lines and I can take my time and actually shop for a few things.  Well, this particular time, when I got there (And I never go to Walmart on a Friday either).  I went around 2:30 in the afternoon and this man followed me all around the store. I even did a small test, because sometimes, I love testing people.  (Don't judge me!) I did a small test to see if he would follow me to the bra section and he passed the lane up, but as soon as I turned the corner there he was, standing there waiting for me to say Hi, or something, I don't know.  Maybe it was a coincidence, but based on how he was staring at me, I felt as if he was following me.  Sometimes when people stare at me for over a minute, I stare back and say, hi or something, ya know, to break the stare. But sometimes people will stare and they won't even say anything, and that shit creeps me out. Have you ever had a complete stranger just stare at you and not even blink? 

Anyway, is it starting to feel like Christmas?  To me, it feels really weird and different. I can't quite put my finger on it.  I am happy and content, but I felt the same way in July, so it being the holiday season, just feels different to me.  Anyone else?  I am sure it's because of all the changes taking place known and unknown, There is a lot going on in the world and in our lives. My advice, just ride the wave.  Keep your head on straight and take care of your mind and heart. One thing is for sure, it will all change. Everything is changing and it's for the better because it's time.  You have to believe that a better day is right now.  Collectively, we can make the biggest changes, tackle the most difficult barriers. Together, we have the most power.  These old systems, paradigms, and old ways of thinking and existing are changing.  So, are you ready?  Are you ready?

It kind of reminds me of a song that I love, by a person that I love and admire, Prince.

Peace and Love, Lavidus

Prince- Let's Go Crazy! 

Dearly beloved

We are gathered here today to get through this thing called life
Electric word, life
It means forever and that's a mighty long time
But I'm here to tell you there's something else
The afterworld
A world of never-ending happiness
You can always see the sun
Day or night

So when you call up that shrink in Beverly Hills
You know the one, "Dr. Everything'll-be-alright"
Instead of asking him how much of your time is left
Ask him how much of your mind, baby
'Cause in this life things are much harder than in the afterworld
In this life, you're on your own

And if the elevator tries to bring you down
Go crazy, punch a higher floor
Woah

Peace & Love

Lavidus

Release...& Let Go

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December is here.  It is again the end of another year.  Considering all the things are that are occurring on earth, if you've made it this far, you should have a lot to be thankful for.  If you are not in a place to feel any kind of gratitude, then you should change your attitude about where you are at this present moment.

Your level of gratitude determines your altitude.  The altitude of life, how far will you go, and what are you willing to give up to get there?  Where ever your "there" is. We all have different paths and journeys, sometimes we meet up temporarily, other times it's forever.  But, one of the most important lessons in life will be your ability to let go of the things, people, and places that no longer serve your highest good.  Even the leaves fall off when the seasons change.  Those leaves are replaced with flowers, and green leaves with vibrant colors to represent the new season.  What season are you in? And when it's time, will you be able to shed those old leaves and welcome your new season or will you drag it out?

Sometimes between seasons, we may get stuck in repeating cycles that cause us to question why we exist?  That cycle is meant to bring awareness to your habits and circumstances that you have manifested into your life that you claim you have no control over, and some we don't.  But we do have control over our thoughts.  We do have the power to change the direction of our lives, but we must be willing to clear up the fog and see things clearly and stand alone if necessary.

I used to find it hard to let go of people that I've loved. My loyalty was unappreciated and my love was seen as a weakness and as an emotion that should be taken advantage of.   When you love a person who does not have the ability to love you back, you will eventually be hurt by that person, situation,  or circumstance.  And they too will be affected by their own blind actions that will eventually lead them to the kind of love that they deserve.  That's one of the reasons why it's important to let go and to forgive so that justice can be served.   Anyway, I thought the more I loved him, he would finally see how great my love is, and finally see me for the loving, divine being that I am.  Then I realized,  everyone is not meant to see me and not everyone is meant to receive my love, so I stopped giving it away and gave it to myself, and that's when real love appeared.  That is when the magic started to happen.  People always ask me, why do I look so young? Why does it seem like I am not aging?  Well, my glow comes from my heart,  no creams, lipo, or magic potion, can make up for what is inside me.  And my contact with people is very limited....lol.

Learn to release and let go.  If it no longer represents the you that you are growing towards, the you that you are going towards,  the you that you have become, then let it all go.  Will, it be easy? No.  Will it be worth it?  Yes!  Be brave enough to change your story and start taking care of your heart.

Peace & Love

Lavidus