Leave Your Past Behind.......

Leaving the past behind is something that many of us are afraid to do.
Holding on to people, places and things that are familiar often becomes a place of comfort and inhibits your ability to grow.  There's comfort in pain, comfort in reliving something that destroyed and changed you.  The lesson is done, now let it go.  I promise that once you release everything that is holding you back, it will feel like the weight has been lifted off your shoulders and a new life will begin.

Letting go of old relationships that you ruined or tried to ruin you.  Let go of the pain and reviving old conversations and reasons why you're no longer together.  Let it go.  Let go of old jobs that drain you of your creative abilities, your ability to think and live a life that is filled with your highest good.  Tap into energies that you have not discovered.  Take a risk and stop playing it safe in victim mode, cause nobody cares.  Challenge yourself and shake up your sub-conscious.  Open your mind to what is new.  That is the only way that you will grow and change into the man or woman you deserve to be.

I have the tendency to keep people in my life because of comfort.  So-called friendships that serve no real purpose.  I don't have to prove anything to them, I don't have to answer to anyone, just people that float in and out of my life for no apparent reason.  And it dawned on me, I have outgrown this revolving door.  My light does not shine brighter because you are around.  It's cool when you're single and seeing who you want, but when you are elevating your love and opening yourself up to something new and different, some people who are not part of the current program will have to be dropped into the abyss of the past.  You can not drag the old you into a new relationship, it's not going to work.  If a person does not resonate with me or vibe with where I am going, then its time to reevaluate the relationship.  Often a person tends to get lost in what I look like physically, without realizing that I have a highly functional brain. I am only going to go where you go.  If you are superficial, then I am going to give that "superficial" energy back to you or not hang around at all.  If you are a real person who is clear about their decisions and about what they want in life, then we're on the same page.  Timeout for men and women who are still lost, still sabotaging relationships, still unclear about their sexuality, still foggy about women, still lying, still giving women a false sense of hope, those people need to be left in "Stillville."  Surround yourself with people who are not afraid to be themselves.

This is my last post for 2018.  I plan on making the new year one of my best years yet.  I hope big things come for you and all that you deserve comes into fruition.  This world was given to you, me and them too, so you can have anything that you imagine and even more.

Be good to yourself and others.

Love Love and Love 2019

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That Holiday Price......

Ohhhh The Holidays!

This is always the time of year when you get to see or feel how much people in your life think you are worth.  This can come in many forms and some surprises.  Although "Christmas" is one of the most commercialized holidays built on the fantasy of "Santa Clause" that many people tend to fall under the trance of, it is still considered a real thing and a justifiable ritual that many of us participate in each year.

Christmas time is also when crime is high and self-esteem, self-loathing and insecurities are at an all-time low. So you gotta ask yourself, why participate?  Why do we rush out to spend money on those we love or buy things for people we really don't care about.  I don't know, maybe generational programming and no desire to find out the truth?  I do know whether you get something you want or not, it will all make you check your self-worth just a little bit harder.  He gets you that diamond ring, but it's really a cubic zirconia, would you love him any less?  You wanted a motorcycle but she got you that scooter, it will still get you there, right?  Those are just examples of how our self-worth should not be tied to things.

Let's consider the other side of the holidays, the side that does not include gifts, just love.   The side that invites you to get together with family to talk and heal wounds.  It's time to tell that man or woman how you really feel, whether its a break-up, reuniting or just deciding to keep it lit, give in to the truth of whatever it is you are feeling.  Bask in that feeling you get when you know that someone loves and supports you.  It's all love and that's all that matters.  Remember to love, forgive and move on for the holidays.  Release that stuck energy and open up to the divine.  Embrace the dark times and appreciate the light.  You can never put a price on a person or the weight of their love, but if you want to get me those black stiletto thigh-high boots, I will definitely wear them. Size 8.


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Have You Ever Been In Love?

Have you ever been in love? 

Have you ever felt love so strong that it stirs your soul so deep, it keeps you wanting more?  Have you ever given in to the desire to be loved only to find yourself in the arms of love?  Holding you close, keeping you warm.  Whispering, I love you's in the middle of the night; starring at you while you sleep, yes, that kind of love.

The kind of love that you feel long after his physical presence has left the room.  His touch lingering on your skin, his kiss stamped all over your body.  Giving yourself completely without a second thought.  Have you ever felt that?   A presence of love so strong that you consider it your armor.  Protecting you against those who have never experienced such love.  Waving my hand, and wishing you the best because I really hope you feel it one day.

Thinking of him, the phone rings, and it's him.  Completing your thoughts, satisfying your every need without having to ask, because he has been paying attention.  Comfort in the time of storms.  Every day is a breeze because of your love.  Nothing even matters because of you, I am free.  Free to dive deep in your ocean of love.  It is you. The perfect example of love, thankful that you shared it with me, unselfishly.   No one could ever fool me to believe that love is not real.  Even in its fakest form, it still feels just as real.  Love yourself enough to know the difference.

Being in love is knowing that love is the only real thing.  Once you feel love, there is nothing that can replace or compare to that feeling.  It's magical, sacred and transformative.  Everybody needs love, the lack of it brings out the pettiness of those who vibrate low.  Send them love.  Never compromise your love for the comfort of someone else. Do not abuse your love, you will lose it and forever be looking for it again.   If you have ever been in love you know that love is to be shared, honored, and handled in the most gentle of ways.  Be the love you desire.


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The Angry Mama's Boy!

Before you read, if you are turned off by curse words, turn off my blog, it's not for you.

Have you ever had a man that loved and hated his mother?  Loved her because that's what you are supposed to do, but hated her because his father wasn't around.  She'll ridicule him to make him feel less of a man unless he is doing something for her.  God forbid if he gets a woman and she has no man.  She will make him her makeshift husband.  She will make it a point to discredit his woman and interfere in the relationship.  This mother is only a problem if the son allows her to be.  It is not your job to go to battle with her, because if you do, you might lose him.  If he does not stand up for you to her, especially when she's wrong, then you are just a body in a relationship.

I dated a man who made it a point to deceive any woman that he came across.  It took me some time to see clearly.  Love has a way of making people appear greater than they really are.  Our perception gets cloudy by our desire to have someone.  There are no grey areas with my love, so once the decision is made that we are a couple then that is how I proceed.  He, on the other hand, had no idea about relationships or how to relate to women. (Now, women, if you ever run across a man who has no respect, no love and despises his mother, run as fast as you can because that is what you'll be getting.)  Hindsight is 20/20.

Men with mother issues, often take their frustration out on every woman that he comes across.  He'll be over-critical, complain all the damn time, point out your flaws, and is often abusive.  It's not you he's mad at, it's his mother and missing father. He'll make all kinds of excuses to justify his immature actions, but unless he's able to confront his own issues, pain or his mother, nothing will change.  He'll go through life justifying his limiting beliefs and recruit others to collaborate on his misery.  Who needs that?

If your man has a habit of fucking up, don't make it a habit of accepting it.   You are not his mother.  Take a look at yourself and realize that you can definitely do better.  If he is willing and makes a serious effort to be in a loving relationship, you determine if he's worth it. Be clear about what you want from a man or woman.  Write it down, visualize it, because you can have it.  Never stay in a relationship where the down times outweigh the happy times. Don't lose yourself to the point where your dreams die, you lack ambition or your self-esteem gets crushed, that is not what you are here for.  Unless a man is able to acknowledge you as the amazing creator that you are, keep it movin'!



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The Purge.....

Changing also means purging.

Transforming also means leaving those old habits, thoughts, and people in the rear view.  Letting go of the things that no longer serve your highest good or the person that you are becoming, all must be left behind.   You have to not only forgive people and let them go you have to replace them with people who know your worth and value your time.  And let me be the first to say that it is not always an easy transition.

When you begin to see friendships change or dissipate, let them.  When you realize that you are surrounded by people who are only close because they want to be the first to see you fail, dismiss them without a second thought.  When people show you time and time again who they are, believe them.   Even the big bad wolf eventually reveals itself to the unsuspecting lamb.  Everything hidden will be revealed.  You can acknowledge someone's inability to see your worth, but you do not have to have them in your space unless you want too.

Silent claps filled with the air of jealousy and disappointment in their own lives; that, my loves, have nothing to do with you.  Be willing to disappear and become an empty space in the life of someone who does not support your dreams or have anything nice or sweet to say.  Let them leave your space and preserve your energy for the ones that cheer and cheer loudly.   Find your tribe, and let them find theirs.  You are ascending to heights that they can never dream of and you can not take them with you and why would you want to?

You may have to be alone in observation mode before you take your true flight.   In order to make better decisions, in order to love better, in order to receive the abundance that you deserve, you have to find out who you are and what you want.   Go inside and get to know yourself.  Find out what you are made of.  Do not let anyone else determine who you are.  Some may see your light and watch you shine.  Once they see your potential, their fear sets in.    Release with compassion.  A good life to them may only consist of a free happy meal and a $2.50 drink, let them revel in it.  Everyone does not have the ability to imagine more for themselves, they're limited in thought and actions.  Allow them to live the life they deserve.

You may experience drawbacks and want the comfort of what you think you know.  Deny it, going back to comfort will only delay your growing process.  Growing can be painful, but the other side of that pain is pure love.  It's a better version of yourself, its a whole new world right inside of you.  Be fearless, Be Love and Never Settle for crumbs when you can have the whole damn meal!!

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The Mind is a Terrible thing to Waste

The mind, the most complex organ that we don't use.   I won't bore you with the biology of the mind, you can google those specifics.  I want to know how you are using your mind to get all the things, people or places that you desire.  It is your special power; your own unique navigator that you can control for the good and bad of you.

Let's talk about the imagination.  The most magical part of our existence.  If you can imagine it, create the feeling of what it is, then it is yours.  If you can dream it, that's manifestation at its best.  There is nothing that you can think in your mind that can not come into fruition.  It is like you are summoning the universe to give you what you desire and often she does.  What do you believe?  What do you believe in? What makes it real to you?  Real or imagined, it all exists.

What do you think about the most? Your subconscious mind knows all.  It is the amp behind your thoughts, and beliefs about yourself and others. It governs our behavior.  It can trip us up by always giving us what we are comfortable with because it does not enjoy taking risks.   That's where your mind steps in, and becomes the deciding factor in your growing and experiencing the other side of greatness.  Even if its a mistake, there is growth in the lesson, at least that is the intention.

Have you ever kept making the same mistake?  Choosing the same relationship? Drama with the same people?  Reliving the past?  You subconscious will always give you what you are comfortable with. What you think about the most is the dominant vibration you're sending.   What you send you receive.  The next time you find yourself worrying and thinking about things in a negative manner, change that thought.  Instead, think about making love, being kissed or create a happy thought that emotionally makes you feel good. Think about how wonderfully made you are and how you have so much to give to the world.  Think about who you want in your life and how you will do things differently.  Think about me.

Get in the habit of beginning your day with a positive thought.  When you lay down for the night dream before you close your eyes.  Imagine what you desire the most is already here, and expect it to appear.  That is what the mind does, it gives you what you desire.  Just believe.  Don't waste your thoughts on things that do not matter.  Do not willingly give your energy to entities that have no substance.  Preserve and protect your being and do not let it go to waste.

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