Are You A Compliment or Insult?

 Does the person in your life compliment you?  Are they a true representation of who you are and what you love for?   One person may look at your relationship and not understand the connection, but see the love. Another may not see the love, but understand why you are together.  I believe when it comes to choosing partners, lovers, wives, etc. you should be able to compliment each other, not just physically, but spiritually as well.   Whomever you decide to lock it down with, that person represents a part of you.  Look at the person you love, the person you are married to, or the person you are dating.   Yes, that's how you feel inside.  So, are you a compliment or an insult?  

Would you want someone to tell you you're the best, even when you are not?   Or would you want to be accepted and loved just as you are, flaws and all?   When you compliment someone you are also complimenting yourself, you are acknowledging yourself in them. There is no way you can be in a relationship with someone and not see parts of yourself, whether you like those parts or not, that person you have chosen represents a part of who you are.   If someone is acknowledging that you are not the best or the most intelligent, they are also acknowledging that in themselves.   If someone is loving you, accepting you, and giving you all they got, it's because they have that love within themselves to give. You cannot see (yourself) something in someone else and not acknowledge it in yourself.

Make me believe that I am exceptional from the rest, or make me feel special and not just someone you can get because you can not get anyone else.  What people fail to understand is love does not require you to lie to make the other person feel better about themselves.  Love does not require you to validate the unstable actions and mental state of someone who is truly incapable of maintaining a healthy relationship, because now you're married.  One of the sweetest things about love is you do not have to be too much of anything to receive it.   You do not have to be the best at anything.  You don't have to be perfect.  You just have to be able to share and reciprocate and be the yang to my yin.

Are you brave enough to love who you love?   Does the man or woman in your life compliment you?  People often say that life is short and time waits on no one, but there are millions of people living in relationships that they regret, being misrepresented by the person they love.  They won't even walk down the street and hold your hand, because they have made up their mind that you do not represent them.   Make sure you are with someone who truly represents who you are and who can love all sides of you. You do not want someone who will just compliment you behind closed doors.

Peace & Love

Lavidus

Please Don't Date Me-100 More Reasons Why (AudioBook)

Don't Affirm, Accept.

We all have these fantastic journeys that we are traveling.  These journeys we call life, we don't always have all the answers, nor do we always have it all figured out.  Some of us are able to ride the wave and manage this thing called life and others not so much.  When you resist, life gets complicated.  In order to cope and to make ourselves feel better, one of the ways we confirm our existence is through

 affirmations.  We affirm what we want, we affirm who we are, and we affirm who we aspire to be.  I am worthy.  I am strong.  I am somebody, but are you really?   During this episode, I explore the idea of accepting ourselves where we are first before we affirm who we want to be. 

I am on my own journey of self-love and self-discovery and it has not always been easy or nice.  I am not perfect by any means, but I always seek what I believe to be right and just.  Earlier in my life, some of my decisions were made based on my lack of confidence and on what was safe. I wasn't aware of the safety net that I had created for myself which also stunting my growth.  I was not always allowing myself to flow.  I was affirming "I am open to receive..blah blah blah..all that is divinely mine blah, blah, blah.  Affirming, but not willing to take the risk.  Believing, but not really ready to step out of faith.  I had to check myself and align myself with the words that were coming out of my mouth.  I had to enjoy, relax and accept myself at the stage I was at and then confirm with conviction who I was becoming.

Before you start affirming to what you want next or what you want to become, accept where you are right now.  Accept not being exactly where you want to be or who you want to be.   Accept your imperfections and what you don't like, and be open to making changes for your highest good.  This love thing is not about getting to a point where you have reached all these goals or made this much money, it's about accepting and knowing who you are before you get there.   You are who you are and your path is designed for you and you only.   Don't start looking in the mirror when you get a new outfit, or when you get those nails done, look at yourself right now.  Appreciate who you are and how far you've come at this very moment.  Once you do, whatever you want next is on the way.

Peace & Love

Lavidus

Please Don't Date Me-100 More Reasons Why (AudioBook)

Give Me...

Give Me

A man that makes me salivate from his intelligence and who gives

good brains

Play with my heart he'll never do, and I'll do the same.

Give Me

A moment with you to look into your eyes

So we can share our souls until we grow old and never die

Give Me

Your hand and walk with me, please

Let me walk through your mind, relax your shoulders

And put it all at ease

Give Me

One shot to show you what I've got

Do you have the time?  Because I got time, no one's lookin' at the clock

Give me 

The worried, the sad, and the unforgiven

And I'll show you that forgiveness is available to everyone who's livin'

Although you can't give me what I already have

It's up to me you and you to realize what it is we have within ourselves

Give Me

Your love and I will give it back

We are all here together, so stand strong, love hard and give it all you've got!

Lavidus

Decisions...

We all go through life making decisions that determine our fate.  It becomes something else when we make decisions to determine someone else's fate.  Some people tend think that they have this power over of the lives of other people and none over their own.  They do things to alter other people perception like telling lies or starting rumors that are untrue, not realizing that it was all a set-up for their exposure.  The cesspool of low vibrational beings is growing and growing and soon they will all fall in.  For those who live in a perpetual hell of their own thoughts and actions, for those who fail to do the work, for those who harbor feelings of jealousy, self-hate, and do not have the ability to love themselves, your lessons will be long and hard, and you'll remember the decision that got you there.  

You never have to worry about people who spend time doing ill things in secret and people who have ill intentions because it will all come to an end. So you stay focused on yourself, on your goals and on what you want to do in this world.  The cowards will turn on each other and you will find the mole among you, but it will be too late.  For those of you who have found comfort in your dark dealings, the light is on the way.   You should always know who and what you are dealing with when you decide to go to war.  You should also know who your opponent is, do some research because some of you obviously had no clue.  But I am sure right now at this very moment you just caught a clue, but again it's too late.

Every single day I wake up, I choose my day.  Every day I make the decision that this is the greatest day of my life and whatever happens it will be handled with ease.   I live in that energy and I live with those thoughts because I am the alchemist.  I understand now that I am the creator and anyone spending time with me in their thoughts, then they are adding to my elevation. It does not matter what you do, it's what I do and how I respond to what you do.   Are you ready to receive in full what you've dished out?  I hope it was a whole lot of love. Manage your thoughts and you will learn how to manage people and use their negative energy to create positive results.

Make the decision to no longer accept anyone's bullshit no matter who they are and what part they play in your life.  Especially if they made the decision to go against you, leave them where they left you.  Once you let go of those titles you can see the snakes and they can no longer hide. I have had a few eye-opening experiences.  Experiences that have let me know the extent people will go to interfere with your path.  People can be really dismissive when they want you to believe that you are the nobody.  They would not be doing all of what they do if you were not somebody.  No one bothers people who they think are nobodies.  It's usually the nobodies who are trying to emulate the somebody's.  You are somebody, so keep going, keep living just how you please and leave the rest.

Peace & Love

Lavidus

Hello September!

Hello September!

Glad you're finally here

August went by so fast that at midnight it disappeared

Oh September, I know you plan to bring the heat

The calm before the storm in these esoteric streets

The shift they say has taken place

Who cares?  If you don't have what it takes

Can you survive this mental plane with all these mental games?

Confusion is the name, and division it's still the same

No longer in a circle

Decisions have to be made

Verbal intelligence sound frame

Just call me Erkel

Love will soothe the heart and rule a nation unseen

Touch you in familiar places go beyond what is green

Create a land the vast majority can't even see

They look in the mirror as a reflection, the blueprint is you and me

Oh September, here you are again and again and again and again times three

And Still, I may ask

Will they forget all the pleasantries and get down to the facts?

Thank you, September for being here once more

May you reveal all that needs to be seen 

And restore some peace and joy

Bring unity, strength, and a warrior mindset

To those who can handle what is true so that we all never forget

We will push through with tenacity, and compassion and never give in or quit

You can have anything you want, just clear your mind and imagine it.

Peace & Love

Lavidus