I really hesitated on writing about inter-racial (And I put that dash there on purpose) dating. Ya'now the black man dating the white woman. It seems to be a problem for some black women. I understand the beef if you are a black woman who is experiencing a drought in the black man dating pool, but if you are a black womnan who is dating enjoying the selection that life has to offer, then you are not affected at all.
Please do not misunderstand me, I know that there are some who want to keep the culture pure and I understand that, but is anyone really pure? I believe love comes in all shapes, sizes and colors. If a black man chooses a white woman that does not bother me at all. That's just one man who knows what he wants and it is not the "Queen of the Earth"...I get that, but I just gotta' laugh. But, I am not mad at all.
I have been pursued by a lot of different races of men. I enjoy being desired by many cultures, that means there is universal love of what "attraction and beauty" is when it comes to the black woman. So when the black man is choosing a white woman, it moves me none. Good Luck, More better to ya", you like it, I love it, you get my drift (my drift, lol, that's old school...lol.) I want people to be happy, to give genuine love and receive it in return. So black man when I walk by and you're with your white woman, hold your head up high, hold her hand, proclaim your love, I am going to love you regardless, so be proud. I am waiting on my Justin Timberlake right now! j/k
As the earth spins and I am on my eternal search for my true King, I will continue to hold my head high and wait on the King. Continue to be the Queen I am and to respect, love and admire what I know to truly indeed be "the man".
One Love Ya'll
1 comment:
This was a good read... I find this topic more interesting because I saw a bit of this in school (Chico State) and more of it here in the Bay Area; only in reverse (Sistas dating outside their race). For some reason, many of my peers thought I would "get-with" a woman of another race, but it never happened for a couple of reasons (Mainly lack of interest on my part). With that said, I find NO issue for either because it's about getting along. Lord knows I've seen many couples of the same race together and not have the love/happiness they seek. If that can be found outside your race, have at it. From where I sit (when I was single), I have seen beautiful women of all races, but I always thought my "get-down was SISTA-GRADE" and nothing less...
when the pickings get slim, you have to seek/find what works for you and not feel like you are settling. The other person doesn't deserve feeling like a compilation prize. That will get your feelings hurt.
Nice piece. Keep 'em coming.
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