One of my greatest loving experiences was with a man that was 10 years younger than I was. He was very confident, loving, attentive and served me like a Queen. Although there were some fundamental differences that would not allow us to have a fruitful long term relationship, the time that we were together was quite memorable.
Some of the things that I learned from that relationship was that it takes a man to handle a woman, no matter what age they are. There is nothing wrong with showing someone that you love them all the time, however, you must first love yourself, (He was in love with himself and said it often!). Confidence is such a sexy thang! It’s ok to just listen. Sometimes, sharing in silence is a wonderful way to show gratitude. Always go with the flow, you never know who may be that “key” that you need. More importantly, Never be afraid to give in to love, you may be surprised.
Because he loved me so much there was no way that we could be friends after my departure. Although he was great in some areas, in other areas the age difference showed. Every now and then he calls, just to say hello. He does not know how much that makes my day. Although I think of him often, I already know what his expectations will be, so I keep the conversation short and sweet. I am not sure if I loved him as much as I loved what we did. That moment in time will forever be etched in my heart.
I enjoyed the fact that a younger man was once in my space. He always had me thinking and wanting more. Spontaneous and full of surprises. I was always flattered by the attention that he gave me, always expressing his love. That young man did not know much about love, but he was willing to try. I appreciated his gentleness, kindness and was grateful for our time. Where did he learn all this from? I don't know, but I do know that there are a few older men who should take a page from his book.
A moment in time as lovers and friends....
LL Walton
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