Love on the Run...or Nah

You're dating like a maniac, looking for "the one."  You've been single for so long that a real connection with someone seems like a thing of the past.   So you do what I call surface dating.  It's just enough to keep you interested, but not enough to commit.   You don't want to get too deep because the last one broke your heart, so you spend time with someone for the sake of sex or just company.  But you know that you have no real future, so you don't get your emotions involved.  You have to control the situation because God knows you do not want to fall in love with the wrong person, right?

Stop the madness!  And realize that you do deserve love.  It is not something to be feared or chased.  Those guards were placed up after the storm so I get it.  But, you have to love on yourself enough to know when it's safe to allow someone to love you too.  The energy you create when you try to protect yourself from the thing you want the most will only give you more of what you are running from.  Every image you meet will only be surface and a reminder of how much farther you have to go for internal bliss.  Imagine the love you want, feel their presence and believer that you deserve the best possible love.

And be warned, there is no faking energy.  It is fluid and whatever you put out it will come back, so keep it honest. Take a real inventory of your heart and where it has been and what you have allowed in your life.  Doing the same thing over and over again, expecting a different outcome, is a sign of a psychopath, are you feeling crazy yet?  The lessons that you refuse to learn will come back in different forms with different faces, only to help you grow.   So the next time you feel yourself being vulnerable, the next time that you feel yourself losing control, let it happen.  Choose to grow.  Choose yourself.  Choose Love.

Peace & Love

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