I found out someone who I considered a "friend" and (I will forever use that term lightly) betrayed me. I had to really sit back and think how many signs there was that I did not notice. This person was an obsessed narcissistic asshole that I should have gotten rid of many years ago. A maniac that found it necessary to control women and when he could not he went to desperate measures to ensure that he all the control. This time he did not expect the outcome of his unthought out actions. A classic case of when the ego interferes with logical thought and you realize you have fucked up.
In situations like this (and I suggest you do the same), I always try to look at my part. What did I do to attract such a reaction from someone who I blindly thought was a friend. I was too close to notice. I saw him in the light with all his imperfections and never in a million years would I have thought that he would turn on me. Pay attention to the people who are close to you, they may not all have your best interest. Things and people are being revealed for who and what they are, look at it and pay attention. If you do not remove unnecessary people from your life, the universe will do it for you. I had two other people removed from my life in grand fashion, but not as loud this person, but removed just the same.
My lessons:
1. Check who you call a friend, just because you have known them the longest does not mean they are your friend.
2. Some miserable people are very good at hiding their misery, it's not until they do something fucked up, that you realize how fucked up they are.
3. Stand up for yourself, Some people might disrespect you because they feel you won't do anything. Prove them wrong!
Love Forever
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