Never resist change. Easier said than done. Tell that to someone who feels as if they have been thrown into the abyss of a hurricane, expecting to come out unscathed. But that is life right? Changes mean that you are alive and it is probably time for a growth spurt.
If you one of the lucky people who is experiencing changes on a high level, it is only because there is something that needs to be brought to your attention. Your path is being altered in order to achieve your highest good. Maybe there were things that needed to be brought to light, your light. Now can you see? Whatever the reason the universe has a way of reminding you that you are not alone in your journey and although painful sometimes, changes are necessary.
When I was in my own personal change cycle, I remember trying to logically figure it all out. I even tried to control the outcome, but my ego needed to be silenced in order to see and feel what was taking place. I could have learned this lesson long ago, but I was not open to the change. I resisted, and low and behold the lesson reappeared again. This time it was loud and intrusive and made me pretty damn uncomfortable, but I got the message.
I learned to let go and trust the process. While in the process I meet several people that were inserted in my life path. They were placed there to remind me of who I am or to remind me of how disconnected I was from this earthly plain. We are all either living our true lives or living a life for other people. I prefer to live my true life and forget about what anyone may think about it. I would rather live in my purpose than live in misery by someone else's design.
We all come with our own garbage, our own biases, and our own self-deceptions. What you must do is learn to love who you are, all the time at every stage or moment and leave it up to other people to make their adjustments to who you are. Never compromise who you are to please "people". Be OK with being different, because people who are the same, eventually become invisible. There are millions of people who are not Ok with who they are. Afraid of the opinion of someone who probably isn't living their true life either. They are in bad marriages and relationships, horrible jobs, spending time with people they hate, comparing themselves by material gains. Who has the biggest ego? Silly kids! It's such a waste of time to try to impress or even care about someone's opinion.
It's very hard to live in that complete existence when all your life you have been told that you have to conform or be a certain way to be accepted. Your body and mind want to be free, but you keep feeding it false beliefs and ideologies that seem real. You smother yourself, then you lose yourself. Poof! You're gone!
Ok, I kind of went on a tangent, but my point is this. Change the way you think about you. The waves of change that is taking place now is for you. It is seeking you out to be your best you. If people are being removed or if your view has started to change, rejoice! Be happy! You cannot take everyone with you to your next level of life. Imagine, some people never change. They stay in that perpetual roller coaster going around and around, never getting off. You are being supported and is placed here in this earthly plane to learn, grow and change. And hopefully, in the process, you help someone else make their transition. We all have a purpose, but not everyone knows or will ever find that purpose, so don't waste time caring what people think.
One of biggest lessons has been to give it all to yourself and some to others. Think about it. Perception is reality. It doesn't matter who you are, if a person has made up their mind about who they think you are, then that's that. Crave the acceptance of no one, be your own guide, love you fearlessly.
Love & Life
L.L Walton
