Change......Can You Handle It?

They say that change is inevitable, so why do so many people resist it?  They say that people have the most difficult time changing because of the unknown.  Even if that unknown is something that they asked for.  How many of you are prepared for something new, but are not prepared to change in order to get it?  That's the bridge that connects the successful and the unsuccessful.  You have to change in order to gain your reward.   Your thoughts determine how you exist.

You have to be able to change and adapt to each new version of you.  You can't navigate through life on the same gas you had at 15 or 25 or 35, you are required to change and hopefully upgrade your thoughts.  Do you know what happens when you do not change?  The universe, life, God sends you events, people, and things to help you change; to help you to see.  Life can sometimes rattle your cage; demands you to get out of your box, in order to help you find the best version of yourself.  There are some people who appear to never change or at least never change in ways that we can always see, but it does happen. People can change physically, mentally and spiritually.  We are not just talking about a change of action, but a change of thought which is the greatest action you can make.  Your thought initiates whatever change you want to make.  Your thoughts can take you there and prepare you for what is to be.

So don't be afraid of change, take that leap!  Don't be afraid to venture into the unknown, there is where you will find your true self. The self you have yet to show the world.  A woman can change her mind a million times a day, and each time she does, it will always be the right decision.  Choose your destiny, accept what is already your's.  Each step you have taken has led you to this moment, the taste of victory is oh so sweet. Savor who you are, know what you are, live the life that you so meticulously designed.  Change in order to grasp the full metamorphosis of your amazing, complicated and flawed being.


Love & You


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What Do you Really Want?

What do you really want?  Do you really know what you want?  Do you want a better life? A better husband or wife? A better job? Or situation?  To be a better woman or man? To fly or stand still? More money or specific destination? What do you really want?

How much time have you taken to find out what you really want? Are you taking just whatever is given, or are you making intentional decisions that will ultimately lead you to your desired destination?  What is it?  I can not tell you how many times I thought I knew what I wanted only to find out that I wanted something else. The changes can be stifling, but you are the captain of your undecisive ship, so keep it at bay or make a decision.  What do you want?

Some people go through life unsure about what they are, so they become the victims of someone else's thoughts.  They do what someone else wants them to, they talk like someone else wants them to, and they walk like someone else wants them to. Unable to formulate a thought on their own, so it is given to them.  Imagine that.  You thoughts can be given to you. SO Think!

What do you really want? Because that is what you can really have.  Make sure that the decision is yours, the mistake is your's to make, so make it a good one.  Look past judgments and indecision, this time will be yours, just jump and feel where you land.  Imagine the greatest you and walk in that vibration,  become that is what you already are.



Presently Loving On You

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When the Love is Gone

What happens when the love is gone and your heart is still left beating.  How do you let go of someone that you have already let go? How long before the official break takes place?  Do we remain friends or is this really the end?  There is no easy way to let someone know that you are no longer in love with them. It's not easy letting go the part of yourself that is no longer serving you.   However, the sooner you do it, the better you both will be.

Staying in a relationship that is really already over is a different kind of abuse.  You know it's over, but you hang on for reasons that you can not explain or justify.  That's when real love transitions to a real lie and the unnatural start to feel natural.  Months, years or days ago you would have never settled for such a situation; but, time and complacency has allowed you to relax into someone that is no longer you.  Let it go.  If you are holding on to someone for beneficial reasons and it has nothing to do with love or the lack of, then you are sealing your fate.  Intentions set the tone for your future.  Good or bad, you control that future.

Sometimes growth is painful, but stagnation is deadly.  Peeling away that old skin, that old way of thinking so the new you can emerge is detrimental.  Experience the pain of letting go.  There is something that is requiring you to learn this lesson so the new you can recognize what you didn't before.  It will be ok.  Everything is happening so that you can get to the best you.  Don't ignore the opportunity to grow.  You will only repeat the lesson.

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