I know you must have heard it all by now. The law of attraction, attracting the likeness of yourself. Negative thoughts bring negative and positive thoughts bring positive. Whatever you are thinking, our bodies which carry energy will bring more of what you lack or more of what you desire. If you really want something, you have to already believe that you have it. I am sure you have all heard of those facts. I called them facts because at some point in your life, whatever you have thought will or has come true. Then there's the deja vu' aspect, the reality of something happening, that has happened before. That just means we were able to experience another dimension of life and was able to live it or relive it again. OK, I am getting off the subject, I will save that for another day.
I will just break it down in terms of what this law of attraction thing means in regards to just relationships. When you attract your mate, partner, lover etc. They represent a space in time that you will share forever or until one of you out grows the other and want something else. The "wanting something else" is more natural simply because we are evolving, human beings that carry energy to attract whatever or whoever we are at that point in time. That is why over a period of time, we can sometimes have several lovers, or just one. Or if married take on another relationship with a mistress or the pool boy. Whatever the choice may be, it is a choice that is made based on where we are in life to accommodate our changing needs. We may have someone stable, but we are still looking for that one to appease the part of us that has grown out of the space of marriage or a committed relationship. They want more. The law of attraction says we attract who and what we are. We attract a person with similar interest, education, and so on. Then there is the fact that opposites attract, what part does that play in the law of attraction? It is more natural to attract people who are not exactly like us. And according to the 53% divorce rate, (up 3% since I last checked) we will eventually for whatever reason what something else, an upgrade or someone completely different. The voice of society speaks through our family and friends until one day we will finally get in the space to fully give in to what we truly desire. One day you might want to be a rodeo cowboy that likes to ride bulls naked, who knows? How many times have you heard someone say, I have always wanted to do that? Or you may be this techie during the day, and a blond haired go-go dancer at night. It happens people! We become more of what we want to be as time passes, which means we attract the people that support the "new" us.
Society says, go to college, get married, find a good job and live the american dream. And when you add religion and the ability to not achieve those things, the guilt can be unbearable. Being single is almost taboo, but lately not so much. We singles have been on to something all along. It is not built for everyone, you actually have to love yourself and be open to what life offers; be it love, a fling, or a long term relationship. Most people are not that free. We are not against monogamy, but the pressure to be married is not felt. We are living in a time where the married's are acting single and the single's are being even more single. Embracing the changing reality. We may not want the same person we married 20 years ago, but kids, finances and security become the main factors when deciding to stay with someone. I am not saying that all marriages lead to someone cheating or being unfaithful, or that over time you fall out of love. There are couples who stay with each other for 50 years, their souls become entwined and live as one. Rare, but possible,
The law of attraction is just that, the law of the universe, the spiritual law that says whatever energy you are giving off, is what you will attract more of. So to put it simply, just spread love, be love and give love. Become what you want to attract. Try it, it's addictive.
Love & Light
